Ladies would you date a guy who is on welfare?

You're initial question, would you date a guy on welfare? is quite misleading as yes, i probably would date a guy who was on welfare, but only if he had ended up that way because he had lost his job & was actively looking to find more work. The guy you describe sounds like an absolute horror! Surely by just looking at your own question you can see the answer already. If you're looking for permission to date a loser then you won't find it here! Have you got so little self esteem that you would make yourself, in your own words, a victim? My advice would be to cut all ties with him, find yourself an honest, hardworking guy & leave this one to rot in his own misery. You can't change a person who doesn't want to be changed, believe me, I've had first hand experience! Think about you & what makes you happy because by the sound of it, this creep would just drag you down. Hope you find happiness soon. Take care. Xx